Glossary of Terms

ASD - Autistic Spectrum Disorder: pretty self explanatory really (includes Aspergers).

SI - Special Interest: a subject that an Aspie finds almost obsessively fascinating.

NT - Neuro-Typical: someone who is not on the Autistic Spectrum.

OCD - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: a mental health problem characterised by repetitive or obsessive behaviour in response to particular events or situations.

Tuesday, 17 January 2012

Illness and my Aspie mind


I usually have a pretty healthy immune system. When colds and the flu make their rounds I am usually either untouched or suffer less for a shorter period of time. It may be partly down to my obsession with cleanliness but there is only so much you can do to prevent infection in that way without developing full blown OCD. Besides, I take the view that a little dirt is good for you. I work outside a lot and in dusty conditions when I am inside and so get a lot of exposure. I also have two dogs which in terms of hygiene are the equivalent of licking the sole of your shoe a couple of times a year. I also take zinc capsules as a supplement which has been shown to improve the strength of your immune system (a link to several studies can be found here: 


Forget Echinacea, the evidence for that particular herbal remedy is ropey at best. I could go on forever about herbal remedies/supplements, but I should probably get back on topic. 

Every year in Britain several strains of flu and colds make their rounds, sweeping through the population and bringing misery to thousands of people. There is no way to avoid them all and to try would do far more harm than good. As if that wasn’t enough at least one strain of the Norovirus (or ‘winter vomiting bug’ as it is poetically nicknamed) stalks the land. As I said at the start, I usually avoid the worst and even when I get ill it is usually pretty quick. Since New Year though, I haven’t been so lucky. First I had a pretty painful and aggressive cold which managed to get into my ears and give me an ear infection. My siblings all had the same but mine seemed to go much quicker. However, it must have weakened my immune system sufficiently for the Norovirus to sneak into my system when I usually avoid it.

 Info from the NHS here: http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/norovirus/Pages/Introduction.aspx.  

I really hate being sick. Nobody likes it but I almost have a phobia of it. I couldn’t even watch someone being sick on TV until a few years ago. All of this made the fact that I have a really sensitive stomach and can (but not want to) be sick at the drop of a hat even more unpleasant. Normally when you are ill, being sick makes you feel a little better. Well, not with this strain of Norovirus; not even an empty stomach could save me. That on top of the fever and diarrhoea meant that I was pretty miserable for four days and it has taken me over a week to start felling even remotely ‘normal’. I even had to miss two days off work, which I rarely do. 

I really can’t stand people who spread sickness and disease through negligence. People sneezing without covering their nose or not washing hands after going to the loo are two of my biggest pet hates (leaving dirty hankies everywhere including the kitchen table also drives me mad). All of this in turn irritates my mother and sister, both of whom are really terrible for this sort of thing. If either of them is ill you can be sure as mustard that every other member of the family will catch it. I can see why they would be mad at me for making a fuss about them infecting everyone, but to suggest that it is inconsiderate on my part is taking it a little far. Sure they are ill, but then surely they should stay in bed and not sit in the kitchen all day spreading germs. That to me is more inconsiderate. When I am ill and contagious I stay in my room and wash my hands at every opportunity so that I won’t spread it to others; I would be mortified if I was responsible for infecting another person. Is it so wrong if I expect others to treat me with the same consideration as I treat them? I am proud to say that I did not infect any other member of the family with the Norovirus despite it being highly contagious. That fact at least made me feel a bit better.

Wednesday, 4 January 2012

Looking back on 2011

It is apparently traditional social protocol at this time of year to make New Years Resolutions. I however have no time for making absurdly impossible promises to better myself, especially when said promises are dictated by specific time-frames (did you understand that, because looking back I'm not sure that I entirely do. Like a monkey in a dress, it just seems wrong (though nowhere near as hilarious). I think I need some coffee...).

Author sods off to kitchen: spends 2 minutes reading the back of the coffee jar, 5 minutes staring out of the window whilst kettle almost boils itself dry and longer than strictly necessary stirring in the sugar. Ah... procrastination...

OK. I'm back and more importantly I have caffeine. You might think that I am a bit of a pessimist believing that resolutions are a pointless (they are; just look at a list of UN resolutions!), but I consider myself a realist, which I believe is somewhere in the middle of optimism and pessimism. No, I prefer instead to reflect upon what happened the year before and learn from the mistakes I made or the success that I enjoyed. 2011 was a tough year, or at least tougher than 2010; though both were easy compared to 2009. A large part of the trials that I experienced were the result of external events that I could neither predict, nor prevent. I was simply swept along by circumstances beyond my control. However, they did provide me with a great lesson to apply to 2012: enjoy the little things. For example, I can cope with a rough day provided I end up in my own bed at night with a good book or if I can take some time to watch a good film/play a good game. It just means making the best out of a crappy situation. I guess it all comes back the the CBT technique 'Mindfulness'. Here's hoping it will help me in 2012.

Sunday, 1 January 2012

Happy New Year!

Well, here we are on the threshold of another year; according to the Christian churches, the 2012th since the birth of Christ (who hasn't aged a day). It is also the year that the world is set to end according to the Mayan calender and crazy people everywhere (I mean what did the Mayans know except for human sacrifice, dangerous roads and building pyramids wrong). Yes the world could end tomorrow but it's the same every day. The probability of this happening however is smaller than Nicholas Sarkozy. Religion it seems is impervious to science and statistics. 

You may be wondering why it has taken me a lot longer to produce a new post. Had I fallen down a well? Got lost whilst traversing the Sahara dessert? Frozen myself in order to skip 3 or 4 months into the future? Well, none of the above (brain freeze when eating an ice-cream too fast is painful enough!). My internet was down and it has taken me the best part of a month and hours on the phone to get it back up again. Needless to say I have now switched providers to a company less incompetent than the last (they weren't even trying!!!). So now I am back on-line! I just need to think of something to write now...

Sunday, 6 November 2011

Moving on,,, or not.

After attempting to write some stuff for the Personality Imprint Project I have realised two things:

  1. I don't have the time and energy to invest.
  2. I would much rather write about religion and Aspergers.
After this mini epiphany I realised that I had made an error in stopping this blog. I also want to start another one called NuWorldReligion. May it last longer than the week (?) or so that PIP did! Hopefully I can get my creative juices flowing. Perhaps some sort of exotic smoothie is in order...

Thursday, 20 October 2011

Moving on...

Dear readers, sorry that I have not posted for a while. There are two reasons for this dereliction of duty: firstly that circumstances at work are eroding more and more of my free time (which in this economic climate is a good thing; well as long as I get paid for it). Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, I am running out of inspiration for posts that stick to the confines of the topic of this blog. Wow... that was a mouthful. I should probably go back over that and check that my grammar is correct! Having the limited attention span that I do I have decided to focus on a new and for me at least, exciting project. I will call it the Personality Imprint Project or PIP. Check it out on Blogger if you are inclined to. I probably won't post on this blog for a while - so nothing has really changed :)  I just thought that I'd let you know what was going on.

Yours sincerely, Richard Avery 

Sunday, 18 September 2011

Earth Abides

“A mysterious plague has destroyed the vast majority of the human race. Isherwood Williams returns from a wilderness field trip to discover that civilization has vanished during his absence. Eventually, in San Francisco, he encounters a female survivor who becomes his wife. Around them and their children a small community develops, but rebuilding civilization is beyond their resources, and gradually they return to a simpler way of life”.

So reads the back of the Sci-Fi Masterworks edition of “Earth Abides” by George R. Stewart.


 You might be wondering why I am looking at a book in one of my posts, but bear with me, there is method to my madness (or at least I hope there is!). This is an important book to me and undoubtedly one of the best that I have read. I found myself identifying very strongly with the protagonist Isherwood Williams, or Ish as he becomes known. At first I couldn’t work out why I felt such a connection, but then all the pieces started to come together. Ish seems to be an Aspie. I don’t know if this was intended, but it certainly seems to be the case. Without wishing to give away any of the plot I will give the reasons why I believe that Ish is an Aspie:

  1. Ish doesn’t really like being around other people and he prefers being on his own, hence his  wilderness trip.
  2. Ish has an SI in the form of Ecology i.e. the relationship between living things and between them and their environment.
  3. He prefers to observe rather than participate. 
  4. Is adversely affected by any change (anyone would be forgiven for being adversely affected by a civilisation destroying plague!).
  5. Social constructions such as racism mean nothing to him. He sees the world in a different way than those around him.
Individually they don’t really mean that much, but when taken together they certainly seem to suggest that Ish really was an Aspie. I often wonder if it was because Stewart himself might have been and that he might have been ‘gifting it’ to his protagonist. Who knows, but it would be nice if it were so…

    Wednesday, 14 September 2011

    Arcadia


    I just have time to do a smallish post, almost a tweet’s worth. I was following trails of information on the internet, seeing where my attention takes me, when I can across the vision of Arcadia. The term Arcadia or Ἀρκαδία derives from the Greek province and was used by renaissance thinkers as an almost utopian ideal; one of simple pastoral pleasure.

                                         The Arcadian or Pastoral State by Thomas Cole 1836.

    It has many parallels with the Biblical Eden and although you can believe in it, you can never attain it. It is an idea that has been around under various guises since the times of ancient Greece, when it was believed that the god Pan lived and frolicked there. It may even have been the inspiration behind the Biblical Eden. It had a profound effect upon me because in a way isn’t everyone seeking the paradise that they will never attain. Despite a part of us knowing that it is unattainable, we still keep hoping. It is what keeps us going in our darkest hour. Aspies too need our dreams.